The other day I strolled into one of my favorite second-hand book stores looking for treasures. I went straight to the sex shelf, the one next to the self-improvement and psychology. I was specifically after books about fellatio, or about oral sex generally, as I was planning to write a blog post as a response to one of my readers. Plus, a book about giving oral pleasure can be fun to have, no?
'I don't like oral sex but don't know how to tell him'
I Don't Like Receiving Oral Sex, and There's Not a Damn Thing Wrong With That
Unfortunately, conventional wisdom has it that women hate giving them. And, indeed, many women do. As with most sexual escapades, it all boils down to the person, chemistry and the heat of the moment. Sex is all timing and confidence. That said, to get the world-class blow job you so desire, there are a few things to remember about overall preferences of women. Remember when you were young, awkward and just starting to learn about sex?
When it comes to sex, there are a lot of variables to consider. What you like, what your partner likes, whether you're ready or willing to try something new, sex positivity, consent, how to spice things up. Basically, there's a lot going on when you start analyzing sex. But the most important part is whether or not you're enjoying it.
That bone was Greyworm, who is a eunuch, getting it on with the massively underrated Messandei. So instead, he went down on her. As I watched the scene, I found myself squirming with discomfort at the idea of having someone go down on you the very first time you had sex.