Bdsm couples stories

My husband and I met when we were in our early twenties, and while our sexual attraction was immediate, we never did anything "outside of the box" in the bedroom. I knew he would occasionally watch porn, which I was fine with, but it wasn't something we did together. And I'd been to sex shops for bachelorette parties, so I'd tried some vibrators and different types of lube, but that's about it. Eventually we got married and had our son, and even though our sex life had definitely ebbed, I didn't think there was a problem. But as my husband watched more porn, I became curious—so I just asked him if we could watch it together. It was a website that had a lot of BDSM-type channels, and the scenes were always book-ended by the actresses explaining how they felt the shoot went.

My current preference is Cathy. My current preference in hair color is red. My friend Cindy is a tall attractive blond, 29, taller than me, with a more curvey body. Kelly and Scott are girlfriend and boyfriend. They both have blond hair, although Scotts could better be described as tan or light brown. In addition they are very intelligent, articulate, and upscale, so there is plenty of room to bring them down in the world, so to speak.

My partner Tania and I have been in the lifestyle for several years. I am mostly Dom, while she switches. She loves submitting to me, but she also loves to Top.

Takeaway: Fifty Shades of Grey is an obvious work of fiction. The good, the bad, and the hilarious often happen in an actual dungeon. Zoe Wilder is a media relations professional and business consultant orbiting cannabis, tech, wellness, music, art, wine and spirits.