Different sex position for first timer

Having sex for the very first time has understandably a lot of emotional buildup and expectation around it. Sorry, just being honest! And if they do come quicker than they wanted: 1. Use it as an excuse to do round 2 or 3 or 4 or If you want to take it a step further, reach over to stroke each other.

One solid bit of relationship guidance is "The Campsite Rule. You know, like when you're actually camping. AKA, don't be an asshole and leave your garbage everywhere. If you really want to show them the time of their life, put your knees on either side and assume the straddle position. Use your hand to rub your vulva and control your thrusts. He gets a sensual overload — the visual of you doing your thing on top, the new sensation of being inside you, the general OMG-I-am-having-sex. Bonus: he gets highly useful lessons on exactly how you like to be touched.

Sex can be a daunting topic and a frightening thought for some, especially if it is their first time ever or the first time with a new partner. There are so many questions around it, some that you might be too shy or embarrassed to ask your friend or partner. Here are some guidelines or tips to put you at ease and answer those questions. Make sure he is wearing a condom; insist on it even if you are on the pill or using other contraceptives. Rather be proactive and safe, than having issues later on.

Emotions will be running high, sexual tension will be fully charged and the perfectly natural what-if-I-get-it-wrong self-doubts will be flooding to the front of your mind. Although admittedly sometimes seen as the tamest of them all, the missionary position has huge appeal for many couples and is most definitely a great place to start. With the woman lying on her back and the man on top, resting his weight on his elbows, it is generally the easiest position for first timers as entry is the most natural this way.